Some of you may remember the well-known National Basketball star, Charles Barkley. In l983, Mr. Barkley made a commercial for Nike proclaiming that “I am not a role model.” He did go on to state that parents should be role models for their children, and that is true. However, it is true that many do look up to people famous in sports, music, business, and acting as individuals to pattern their lives after. Young people often are attracted to their heroes because of their notoriety, power, physical ability, or wealth. Opinions and advice from the well known can be interpreted by some as fact, even if the person is espousing things they have no knowledge of or worse yet, contrary to Biblical teaching.
But, what about us ordinary folk? You may think that no one is watching you for clues to how to pattern their lives, but think again. As we look back to our youth, didn’t you have someone you wanted to be like? A person who seemed to have it altogether. Did you ever express to that role model that you admired them, the choices they had made in their lives, their behavior and habits? Or did you just watch from afar and try to pick up actions that would endeavor to make you like them? If you were like me, you probably never mentioned to your “secret mentor” that you admired, respected, and wanted to plan your life like them.
If you were trying to follow the example of someone, guess what? Someone is more than likely watching you as a role model for their life. It may be someone you would never expect: a senior citizen, a newlywed you may not know well, a new Christian, a friend, or your own child. We may never know. Whether Charles Barkley wanted to be a role model or not, I’m sure he was to some. The same can be said of us. The Apostle Paul tell us in 1Corinthians 11:1, “Be imitators of me, just as I also am of Christ.” At first glance I thought this to be a very puffed up statement on Paul’s part, but on closer inspection, we are instructed to be imitators of Paul only as he imitated Christ. That could also be true of us. We don’t want people to imitate us in our weakness, failures, or sin, but if we are truly imitating Christ, people can imitate us.
So, let’s make some sound choices that others can imitate. Here are a few things we might consider: Is your church attendance and participation what it should be? Are you using language that demonstrates your Christianity? Do you speak about the church and church members in a negative way, or are you always complaining about what goes on at church? If you are a Bible class teacher, are you well prepared to share the truths of God’s Word with others, or are you just winging it? Does the way you dress show your desire to be respectful, appropriate, and modest? Are you reaching out to others to show them Jesus? Are you studying your Bible and praying as you should?
It is true that we have a choice in the decisions we make, the way we act, the places we go, but we are also bound by the consequences of those decisions. Ultimately, everyone is responsible for their own decisions, but we never want anyone to imitate us in ways that could have negative eternal consequences. Let’s dedicate ourselves to being better imitators of Christ so others can imitate us.
This past week our nation has witnessed the death and funeral of our 41st President, George H. W. Bush. Whether you agreed with his politics or not, it is always a sad experience to see a family in mourning for a loved one. Most of us have also lost those we cared for deeply, and it hurts, so we know how the Bush family and friends feel.
It is a fact, that we will all one day leave this earth in death if the Lord doesn’t return first. So, is there a lesson we can benefit from when we are confronted with the passing of those we love?
One of the benefits of death is it reminds us that we are all headed that way. The writer of Hebrews tells us in Hebrews 9:27: “…it is appointed for men to die once.” It should not be a surprise to us that at the end of this life, whenever it is, we are going to die. We don’t usually like to linger on this thought, but it is a fact we must acknowledge. The positive side of this benefit is we have time to make ourselves right with the Lord. We live life in a time frame. All that we do must be accomplished within those boundaries, whether “good or evil”.
A second benefit of facing the reality of our death is knowing God has graciously warned us to prepare for our final scene on earth. Judgment is not a “pop quiz” for which we cannot prepare. Romans 14:10 says; “For we must all stand before the judgment seat of God.” This is a sober thought for non Christian and Christians alike. To stand before the creator of the universe who knows not only our deeds but our thoughts and intents as well, makes the most righteous among us shudder. II Peter 3:9 assures that our loving God wants no one to “perish, but for all to come to repentance.” We also know that God loved us so much that He sent His precious Son to die for us (John 3:16) so that we could live with him eternally. What a beautiful thought!
To me a most beautiful benefit of contemplating death is knowing that we have a reward coming. Revelation 2:10 says, “Be faithful until death, and I will give you the crown of life.” What a glorious hope faithful Christians have. This life is a place of preparation. Don’t miss this opportunity to be right with God and let death take you unprepared. Let’s all take advantage of our “death benefits” while we can and dedicate ourselves to being ready. Are you ready?
I believe we know that to create something you need a pattern to follow. When this building was being built, they followed a pattern, it is called a blue print. Can you just imagine the results of this building if there were no plans? The building might go up in a fashion but it is also true that it would fail to stand. We would be asking each other what went wrong. We told them to just build with no idea where the light switches were to be put, or where the water heater would go. I think we can all see it would just be a mess and unusable and a complete waste of time and money.
God does understand that we needed a pattern to follow. He did not fail to let us know that there is a pattern to follow. Surely, we remember that God gave Noah a pattern to build the ark. Noah knew he had to follow the plan as God laid it out or he and his family would be lost with all the other people of the earth.
God gave the people of Israel a plan to follow, that is found in Exodus chapter 20. “Then God spoke these words.” They were to follow that pattern. The building of the tabernacle had a precise pattern. What was in each part and who could go where. The pattern is found in Exodus in chapter 25 and the chapter that follows.
In the New Covenant, God has also given us a pattern to follow and it is precise. It tells us how to treat others, it tells us how to love, it tells us who to put first in our lives and it tells us how we might get to heaven. There is a pattern to follow, there is only one pattern and that pattern comes from God and not the thoughts of man.
To understand what the pattern is, we need to read the blue print. There are no change orders in God’s pattern. It is to be followed as written by the inspiration coming from God. This pattern was given to the first century Christians and it the same one we have today. That pattern was given to the Jews who had come to Jerusalem to worship. That pattern is given to us starting in the Book of Acts in chapter two. When the apostle John comes to the end of the Book of Revelation in 22:18-19. He warns the people not to add to or take away. Remember John was there in Jerusalem with Peter and the rest of the apostles in Act chapter two. Follow the whole pattern God has given to us.
As some of you may know, I recently had surgery on my wrist and elbow. It was supposed to be a simple routine procedure. However, things don't always turn out the way we expect and that was certainly true in my case. I had quite a few complications which greatly prolonged my recovery. All at once, I became acutely aware of all the activities I normally take for granted. I was unable to bend my arm, tie my shoes, button my shirt, or sign my name. Many of the chores I normally do became the responsibility of my wife, including waiting on me hand and foot. Thankfully, I am now starting on the road to recovery.
I am sure many of you have had a similar experience when a part of your body was hurt or ailing. All at once you realize how much you depend on that injured toe, thumb, or back. If possible, when this occurs, other parts of your body have to take up the slack that was once the responsibility of the injured member. When we are finally well again, it is such a welcome relief.
The Bible teaches this is also true in a spiritual sense. In 1 Corinthians 12:20-27: But now there are many members, but one body. And the eye cannot say to the hand, "I have no need of you"; or again the head to the feet, " I have no need of you." On the contrary, it is much truer that the members of the body which seem to be weaker are necessary; and the members of the body, which we deem less honorable, on these we bestow more abundant honor, and our unseemly members come to have more abundant seemliness, where as our seemly members have no need of it. But God has so composed the body, giving more abundant honor to that member which lacked that there should be no divisions in the body, but that the members should have the same care for one another. And if one member suffers, all the members suffer with it; if one member is honored, all the members rejoice with it. Now you are Christ's body, and individually members of it."
Each and every member of this congregation is VITAL. For us to progress and grow, we need each and every one. No one is more important or less important than anyone else. We all must do our part for the church to be successful in the work of the Lord. As we go forward, let's all make a conscious effort to do what we can to be acceptable in His sight and grow the body of Lord in this place.
As I ponder over things in this life and the things I should have done, it does make me aware of the fact that I still can do the things I should have done long ago. The thing that comes to my mind first is that I should have been much more thankful for what I was blessed with. When the inspired writer of Malachi writes in 1:2 is say this, “I have loved you,” says the Lord, But you say, “How have you loved us?” The Jews of the Book of Malachi were not very thankful for what God had done for them. Even through this is written to the Jews, it still can apply to us today. Are we thankful for all that God has done for us? Or do we say I am not very blessed, just look at my situation in this life. We all just need a calculator to start numbering all that our God has blessed us with and be so thankful. I understand it today but as I was growing up I should have been more thankful for my family. I was very blessed to have parents who really loved me and gave their all to make me the person that I am. Not only my parents but my whole family, grandparents, uncles and aunt and cousins. As I look back in time when all these members were here, I should have been even more thankful. You really don't understand these great blessings until you don't have them any longer. Most of us could relate to this and understand how we have been blessed, be thankful.
In my youth I was blessed by a great church family. Elders and preachers who were great examples but I should have been more aware of how much they loved me and taught me about God. And the little old lady who told me the story from the Bible that I still remember, Alice was her name. I wish I could tell them all thank you for helping to form this person called Jack.
The things that should never come from me at this point in life is that I am ungrateful for all the blessings that come from our God. Our God has given His Son to me. God has given us the hope that carries us thru every day, He will bless us with the hope of heaven if we are true and obedient to Him.
I am thankful.
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